{"id":15294,"date":"2023-06-14T08:01:29","date_gmt":"2023-06-14T12:01:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/phare-lighthouse.com\/?post_type=cpt_news&p=15294"},"modified":"2023-10-18T14:04:53","modified_gmt":"2023-10-18T18:04:53","slug":"mon-fils-ilyan-et-moi","status":"publish","type":"cpt_news","link":"https:\/\/phare-lighthouse.com\/en\/nouvelles\/mon-fils-ilyan-et-moi\/","title":{"rendered":"Mon fils Ilyan et moi"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ilyan am\u00e8ne la vie au Phare. C\u2019est ce que le personnel m\u2019a confi\u00e9 une fois.<\/strong> Malgr\u00e9 sa maladie d\u00e9g\u00e9n\u00e9rative qui affecte son esp\u00e9rance de vie, Ilyan est un petit gar\u00e7on patient, r\u00e9silient, qui donne de l\u2019amour. Il a une certaine autonomie: il rigole, court, aime les livres, le tricycle, les films et jouer \u00e0 la bataille avec son papa.<\/p>\n

Au jour le jour, je n\u2019y pense pas. Il fait partie de ma vie et il am\u00e8ne la vie.<\/p>\n

Quand Ilyan avait autour de 3 ans, l\u2019\u00e9quipe g\u00e9n\u00e9tique au Children<\/em> m\u2019a parl\u00e9 du Phare. \u00c9tant donn\u00e9 que je n\u2019ai pas de famille ici et peu de ressources qui peuvent offrir du r\u00e9pit, mon ex-conjointe et moi avons accept\u00e9 d\u2019aller visiter Le Phare quelques mois apr\u00e8s avoir appris son existence.<\/p>\n

Passer \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9tape d\u2019y aller c\u2019est une chose, de laisser son enfant au Phare pendant un jour ou deux, c\u2019\u00e9tait plus inconfortable. Personnellement, j\u2019avoue que \u00e7a m\u2019a fait un choc au d\u00e9but, de voir d\u2019autres enfants dans ces conditions-l\u00e0. \u00c7a m\u2019a frapp\u00e9 dans ma r\u00e9alit\u00e9, je suis un parent d\u2019un enfant de ce type-l\u00e0 qui n\u2019a pas encore une telle condition, mais qui pourrait en arriver l\u00e0 un jour. J\u2019\u00e9tais tr\u00e8s triste et j\u2019ai r\u00e9sist\u00e9 \u00e0 utiliser leurs services. C\u2019est la maman qui m\u2019a convaincu d\u2019aller au Phare et apr\u00e8s un certain temps, c\u2019est devenu plus facile.<\/p>\n

Aujourd’hui, je n\u2019ai aucun probl\u00e8me \u00e0 laisser Ilyan plusieurs jours \u00e0 la fois. Je suis tr\u00e8s \u00e0 l\u2019aise avec tout le personnel, j\u2019adore la bienveillance de ce milieu de vie, j\u2019entends des compliments sur Ilyan, sur sa bonne humeur et \u00e7a me fait plaisir.<\/p>\n

Le Phare nous procure du r\u00e9pit et nous aide dans des moments plus difficiles. C\u2019est pr\u00e9cieux pour les parents. Qu\u2019on le veuille ou non, notre enfant vient avec sa charge \u00e9motionnelle et logistique qui affecte diff\u00e9rentes sph\u00e8res de la vie quotidienne.<\/p>\n

Comme parent, on sait qu\u2019on est fort, on sait qu\u2019on assume, on ne sait pas forc\u00e9ment qu\u2019on a besoin de r\u00e9pit, qu\u2019on a besoin du Phare.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u2014M. Terki, papa d\u2019Ilyan, 7 ans.<\/p>\n

Pour tous les papas comme M. Terki<\/strong><\/p>\n

<\/i>Je donne<\/a>\n","protected":false},"author":17,"featured_media":15303,"template":"","categories":[25,23],"class_list":["post-15294","cpt_news","type-cpt_news","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-communaute-bienveillante","category-la-vie-au-phare"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\nMon fils Ilyan et moi - Le Phare<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"D\u00e9couvrez le t\u00e9moignage touchant du papa de Ilyan, 7 ans. Un r\u00e9cit qui d\u00e9montre l\u2019apport inestimable du Phare dans la vie des familles. 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